When Kindness Gets Exploited: A Rant on Respect and Boundaries

Alright, folks, today I’m ripping the band-aid off a topic that's been grinding my gears for way too long. We're talking about treating people the way you want to be treated. Yeah, it’s a basic principle, but damn if it isn’t violated left, right, and center. Let's dive into the nitty-gritty of it.

The Golden Rule: Easier Said Than Done

You know the golden rule, right? “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” Simple. Straightforward. Yet somehow, a lot of folks seem to miss the memo. I’m not here to preach like some holier-than-thou guru; I’m speaking from the trenches. This is my life, my work, and it’s been a battlefield of giving and taking—mostly the latter, if I’m being honest.

Being Used by Clients

Here’s the deal: I’ve got a service. A genuine, in-demand service that I pour my heart and soul into. Psychic readings, energy work, music, books—you name it, I’ve probably dabbled in it. And let’s not beat around the bush; my services aren’t the cheapest. They’re priced for a reason: they’re worth it. But man, you wouldn’t believe the number of people who seem to think they deserve a free pass.

The 'Friends' Who Blur the Lines

Now, don’t get me wrong. I love helping people. Hell, that’s why I do what I do. But some folks out there—yeah, you know who you are—think that because we’re “friends,” they shouldn’t have to pay for my services. At first, I let it slide. I hate letting people down, and I genuinely wanted to help. But years of this shit? It’s taken a toll. It’s not about being a friend anymore; it’s about being taken advantage of.

I get these messages daily. “Hey, can you just quickly tell me what you see about my new job?” or “I need to know if my ex is coming back.” They shoot off questions like I’m some kind of answering machine. And when I gently remind them that this is my job, my livelihood, and yeah, I need to get paid for it—they act like I’m the asshole. Well, guess what? I’ve had enough.

Understanding Value

Let’s talk about value. I understand financial struggles. I’ve been there. But here’s the thing: I have a talent, a skill, a fucking gift that I share with the world. Just like a chef creates a meal or an artist paints a masterpiece, I provide a service. And guess what? They charge for their work, too. You don’t see them giving away free food or art because it’s their time, their energy, and their passion on the line.

The Real Cost

What people don’t seem to get is that my work isn’t just some side hustle. It’s my life. Between writing books, making music, and providing psychic readings, my schedule is jam-packed. Every minute I spend on a “quick favor” is a minute taken away from paying clients, from my creative process, from my sanity.

Mutual Respect

Treat people like you’d want to be treated. It’s that simple. Don’t take advantage of someone’s kindness. Respect their time, their effort, and their craft. If you want a reading, book one. If you want my music, buy it. This isn’t a charity; it’s my livelihood. And trust me, the energy and dedication I put into each session, each song, each book? It’s worth every damn penny.

Final Thoughts

So here it is, raw and unfiltered. If you’re one of those people who think it’s okay to blur the lines of friendship and business, think again. Respect the hustle. Respect the craft. And most importantly, respect the person behind it all.

Till next time, keep it real and treat people right.

Keep the vibes high and the bullshit low.

Demetri Welsh

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